Happy Pride Month
What Are You? And you only have two seconds to reply. . . The day was sunny and warm as we walked hand in hand from the parking lot to the store entrance; the cat call was loud as the pickup approached...
View ArticleBe more Polish
I stumbled upon an article this week that took me by surprise and has sparked off the idea to write this. What it mentioned linked strangely well with my own perception of things, reinforcing them in...
View ArticleOn the Loose… after Lockdown!
Whilst (warm late autumn weather permitting) , allowed lots of under-dressing, both day and night, with the lockdown causing all activities by the charity for which Caty volunteers to cease, of course,...
View ArticleHow do you handle the attention?
That was a question I was asked recently while in conversation about living outside the box I had not considered this question consciously before, so I took pause for a minute to consider my response....
View ArticleThe Odyssey: An Adventure in Disbelief
The beginning For many of you, this article is supernumerary because you’ve already decided that you’re buying from an established American company. But, if you get a heads-up from a fairly reliable...
View ArticleMy Prayer
My wish for the future, a Prayer for Hope, Peace and Acceptance These are a few of the thoughts I’ve had over a long time. They contain a little bit of my whimsy, but the wish within and the desire for...
View ArticleConfronting Fear
and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear: Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our lives and how we behave. It...
View ArticleTell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife
I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a...
View ArticleMy First Time Out
I went out dressed as Julie for the first time today, and it was so exciting I had to tell you all about it. A bit about me; I’m 56 and like so many of us, I started crossdressing around 10. I remember...
View ArticleA path to metamorphosis
Inspired by Sophie’s Song (Sweet Butterfly) a song written and performed by Walter Trout I hadn’t listened to this track for quite some time, mainly due to the vast amount of music I have in my...
View ArticleStop Dreaming and Start Achieving
In response to Vanessa Law’s forum query, “Where Are You Heading in 2020,” I answered as follows. 1) I will spend more time here at CDH. The time I regularly spend here has helped me be more at peace...
View ArticleMaturing with Style
Like many, I have developed an individual dress sense and enjoy to dress in my own style. I am now over 60 years of age (it’s a shock that I’ve made it this far !!) and have not only matured in my...
View ArticleJump up and touch the sky
Life, a series of events and obstacles from the moment that we are conceived until the day we die Naturally, we are aware of the stages we go through from birth to old age, with fuzzy invisible divides...
View ArticleShackles Loosed – The Power Of Coming Out
I attempted to communicate the feminine side of me to my first wife. I am sure my attempts were feeble and no doubt unlearned. How could I help her understand about me what I didn’t understand about...
View ArticleDon’t argue for your limitations!
My five steps to overcoming a s*** storm, or adversity Arguably, the thing each of us wants more than everything else, at our deepest inner level, is to live our lifetime in happiness. To experience...
View ArticleThe Feeling Of Freedom… A Comming Out
Prior to a week of business travel, my wife suggested that Tammy meet her when returning home from my business trip. This was an unexpected event as my wife, although somewhat supportive from time to...
View ArticleAre you Proud to be a Crossdresser?
Are you Proud, Ashamed, or somewhere in between of being a Crossdresser? Some might find it an easy answer, but for most of us, I don’t think so. Like many aspects of this life, the truth is more...
View ArticleYou’ve been tagged
When I wrote this article, I was totally unaware of the imminent release of the excellent documentary Disclosure, directed by Sam Feder and produced by Laverne Cox and Amy Scholder. I most strongly...
View ArticleCharlotte is Born
For as long as I can remember, I have been fascinated with certain women’s clothing. I think it really started in junior high school. A friend of mine would always dress in heels or boots, a...
View ArticleOnce We Decide
Hey beautiful souls, I wish you an amazing week! ‘I just have to figure out what I want now’ she said, ‘once I know that, I can easily imagine it and day dream about it with huge emotions 24/7, but...
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