When I`m relaxed, what do I want to do? Now (Jordan) has a different style to my other persona’s, taste. Is this natural, or is it having a “split personality?” The answer is; I’m not sure. So which is the real me? We have a vast difference in musical taste, and there’s the question of our opinions regarding TV and […]
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Do we consider the inner-side of our Persona
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The power of accidental revelations
Have you ever spent so much time focused on a project, or aspect of your life, that it feels like it is coming constantly unglued and now you are feeling an avalanche of anxiety because things aren’t working out right in this thing you’ve put so much energy into? It drives you to either dedicate more time and energy to […]
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Volunteers Needed: Media Review Feature
Hello, all you fabulous people! Crossdresser Heaven and Transgender Heaven is developing a new feature which will focus on reviews of books, movies, and shows that would have a special appeal to our members. These would include storylines involving transgender or gender expansive characters and themes, stories of empowerment, and any entertainment media that you have found inspiring or helpful […]
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CDH. A testimonial from Fiona Moss.

Hi ladies. This article is written from the heart. It is in no way a reflection on other people’s views or motivations, although of course, many will be able to relate to what I am about to say, so here goes, this is my true to heart, testimonial of the wonderful site we all know and love, Crossdresser Heaven (CDH). […]
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Exploring Something New

The first time I dressed as a girl was for a school play. It was a comic role where some guys were portraying a group of girls. I felt a mixture of excitement and shame because my friends were going to see me portrayed in female clothing. Soon after, whenever I would see my mother’s lingerie hanging out to dry, […]
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Who is Your Therapist?

Recently I read the wonderful article by our own incredible Captain Di “Finding Your Way Home”; Thank you for that Cap In the article she mentioned that finding a good therapist or counselor is much like finding a great pair of well-fitting shoes. Most of us have tried on several pair of shoes before choosing the pair that fit us […]
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Easing Into Appearing in Public: Take Small Steps

I haven’t quite developed the confidence to just go out anywhere and do anything en femme, but I’m trying to edge towards that. Most times when I’ve been out, it’s been walking around my neighborhood after about 2 am and before 5 am. In other words, there’s not much chance of me encountering people and potentially having to interact with […]
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Your Resume
We all have our own journey. While many of us share a great number of similarities in our journeys, they are never close to being exactly the same. So, why is it that we rush to define ourselves? Partly it is because we want to be part of something. A journey away from what would grant you easy mainstream acceptance […]
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Crossdresser Heaven Site Updates for January 2019
Hey folks, Happy New Year! I hope your first month in 2019 has been beautiful, full of new year’s resolutions you stuck to, and perhaps even a few pieces of chocolate cake snuck in as well 😁At Crossdresser Heaven we’ve also got some wonderful things planned for 2019! Your illustrious Managing Editor and Director of Content Development, Cap, suggested that […]
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Coming Full Circle
As I read thru several articles written by the members of the website I realize how much pain so many gals have felt over the years because of their desire to dress in feminine clothing. There are also words of joy, confidence and success by those who have been able to say: “I am what I am and I don’t […]
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(un)Folding the Clothes
I want to unfold. I don’t want to stay folded anywhere, because where I am folded, there I am a lie. -R M Rilke Do you fold? Well I hope so! Those clean clothes need to be put away nicely! Are you folded though? Oh my. I really hope not, but like me, I bet you have been. It’s a […]
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We are who we strive to be!
I saw an ad for an online university and one particular line stood out to me. The announcer’s voice was trying to be encouraging when he said, “Talent is evenly distributed, but opportunities are not.” As I heard those words, I realized that while they SOUNDED good at a glance, they were in fact, patently untrue! If they WERE, then […]
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Celebrating the Feminine

This past October, I went out with the gurls from my support group to a new LGBTQ+ friendly bar en femme. I wore a loose black knit dress, stockings with garter belt, breast forms, ballet flats, tattoo sleeves, a cape, and a witch’s hat. It was Halloween! It reminded me of the scene from Transparent when Mora was with her […]
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Keystone-What’s it Like?
Let me start out by saying that everyone’s experiences are different. I can only provide you with my perspective. My first CD/TG conference experience was Southern Comfort (SCC) in Ft. Lauderdale, FL in September 2016. I had only made the first tentative forays out in public in full Cyn mode earlier that year, which I wrote about in (https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/it-all-started-with-a-vanilla-milkshake/ ). […]
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Carolyn–The adventure begins
I thought I’d tell my crossdressing tale in two parts. The second part, where I make my first public appearance as Carolyn hasn’t happened yet; it will happen soon, and how I got to that stage is a story unto itself. What were you doing last October? If we’d made a bet that I would be in the very place […]
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Vegas to Anaheim
Like many crossdressers, I dressed secretly for a lot of years, wearing my mom and sister’s clothes. On Halloween, 2017 I got brave and went to a local night club dressed as Elsa from “Frozen”. My… Read more →
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I Am, a Drop of Water, Serving the Ocean

Jump on The Freedom Buss and Ride! One sunny day, May fourth, 1961, a group of people who had experienced being hated on, abused, shunned an even physically attacked, boarded a big ole buss and left… Read more →
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Mona Says Yes to the Dress

Part 1: My Story Hi all, my name is Ramona Richards but I go by Mona. I’m relatively new to the CDH community, having joined just before the holidays. By way of introduction, bear with me as I begin t… Read more →
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Welcome to the Media Review

Though many may not realize that crossdressing and transgender characters have been present for a very long time first in print and then in the visual mediums, film and television. We are to be … Read more →
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Heal (Heel) Your Aching Back!

Those who have read my blog or seen comments from me about high-heels know that I am a strong proponent and advocate for wearing high heels. Because of this propensity, I have written, researched,… Read more →
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