Brina, Valentine’s day is fast approaching and for most couples, which means planning a special date and picking out that perfect gift. I’m not doing either of those things because I’m distracted because my husband shared that he would really like to pierce his belly button. He’d enjoy it and I wouldn’t…so how do couples handle an impasse like this without him feeling like he can’t do things that would bring him joy and me feeling like I’m the warden […]