I spend a lot of time thinking about this because it’s essentially the situation I’ve been in for the last few years. So, I consider myself something of an authority on the topic as it applies to married crossdressers. But here, I’m aiming to reassess the usage of the phrase “don’t ask, don’t tell,” or more accurately, advocate for abandoning it altogether. You might wonder why I’m proposing this, and there are two reasons: one, DADT largely carries a negative […]